I’ve just started reading Slaughterhouse-Five by Kurt Vonnegut, a kind of autobiography about his experience of the fire bombing of Dresden, “The Florence of the Elbe”, in the Second World War. Early on the book describes how he went to visit one of the men he served with, and finds his wife is angry with the idea of him writing the book.
Then she turned to me, let me see how angry she was, and that the anger was for me. She had been talking to herself, so what she said was a fragment of a much larger conversation. “You were just babies then!” she said.
“What?” I said.
“You were just babies in the war - like the ones upstairs!”
I nodded that this was true. We had been foolish virgins in the war, right at the end of childhood.
“But you’re not going to write it that way, are you.” This wasn’t a question. It was an accusation.
“I-I don’t know,” I said.
“Well, I know,” she said. “You’ll pretend you were men instead of babies, and you’ll be played in the movies by Frank Sinatra and John Wayne or some of those other glamorous, war-loving, dirty old men. And war will look just wonderful, so we’ll have a lot more of them. And they’ll be fought by babies like the babies upstairs.”
So then I understood. It was war that made her so angry. She didn’t want her babies or anybody else’s babies killed in wars. And she thought wars were partly encouraged by books and movies.
There have been 15 wars since 1945.
Dulce et decorum est pro patria mori, apparently.
